by Anonymous (a.k.a you-know-who)
People often say that there are three things that are the biggest temptations for a man: wealth, position, and women.
I have no problem with the first two. I am not obsessed with wealth, nor high position.
But I do find women very tempting, and probably vice versa. If you happen to have a closer look at my office, you will see several gifts from more than one woman, each of whom had a really fiery, passionate romantic relations with me. And I have been struggling with this issue since I was in my early thirties.
The postings on polygamy, first by Umi and then followed by Agung, somehow makes me mull over this matter.
I am lucky to have been entrusted with a mentoring group. Being a mentor somehow helps me maintain a tight control over my strong inclination toward women. Realizing that I am a mentor, I force myself to be a good role model for my mentees. So I know how shocking it is for them to know that their mentor is struggling with this women issue. . .
What will be happening in the next few years, or even months, I don’t know. Whether I will still be a clear-minded mentor or a complete charmer that, again, captivates another woman into my arms depends very much on how strong I resist temptations.
Me rocks!! Yes, I do rock (some) women, but now I do not feel any pride when shouting it. It’s a warning call rather than a triumphant crow.